Friday, October 2, 2009

Expections about Love

One of the things that we most desire in this world is to be loved.

From a very young age, we are conditioned to believe that finding that perfect mate will greatly enhance our life and make us happy. Can the Law of Attraction be used to draw that perfect union to us that we so desire?
Well of course it can. But before Maria Duval explains more, it’s important that she qualifies some expectations regarding finding love.

First and foremost, contrary to what most of us have been led to believe, finding love does not make us happy. There is no such thing as “finding” love. We are love and love exists within us effortlessly.

The only love that truly brings us happiness is not found “out there” in another human. That love exists right inside of us.

This important key is unfortunately what keeps us from truly finding that special person to share our lives with. People are looking for someone to complete them, fix the, make them whole, make them feel special, and make them happy.

The reality is, if you don’t already feel those things on your own then therein lies the problem. No one is meant to complete another. We have to come to the table already whole.

The goal of a successful relationship is two whole people coming together and enhancing each others’ lives.

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