Monday, October 13, 2008

Maria Duval - How To Create The Life You Really Want

How To Create The Life You Really Want
To create the life you want you first have to change your thoughts and beliefs. Whether you believe it or not it is your daily thought beliefs and actions that have created your existence thus far. In order to make a lasting change you have to approach your life as you know it, from a different perspective. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." - Albert Einstein Changing old beliefs and thought patterns is not always easy. You have to begin by introducing new ideas into your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is following commands that have been inadvertently programmed through years of personal experiences and beliefs. You have to also question your beliefs and thoughts. You have to ask yourself, "Are my opinions about this 100% accurate or is there another possibility or another way to look at this situation?" "Man becomes what he thinks about all day long." - Ralph Waldo Emerson To help change your beliefs you should expose yourself to other people's ideas through reading motivational or inspirational books. Although motivational books will not accomplish this all on their own, they are a good way to start changing your habitual ways of thinking. I'm sure we have all met someone whose opinion is always the right one. No amount of prodding can change their mind. Are you one of these people? Once you are able to question your beliefs and thoughts you can then entertain other potential realities. Create the life you want by writing out your goals. What do you want? Begin right now by picking up a pen and paper and set some goals for yourself in the areas of finance, spirituality, relationships and physical well-being. Once your goals are clear you can begin to take action steps in the direction of your dreams. The one thing that separates successful people from the not so successful people is that they go out and take action. What stops most people from taking action you may ask? It is simply the fear of failure. How many times have you stopped yourself from doing something? Just keep in mind that there are no failures in life, just lessons. Learn from your mistakes and make corrections. Continue and never give up, take action steps daily and make corrections along the way to keep yourself on course. You can really be, have and do anything you want in life and the proof of that is to look around you. There are literally thousands of people right now that are succeeding at fulfilling their dreams. I am going to let you in on a little secret. You too can have everything you want in life but you have to do one thing. You have to be wiling to pay the price, no matter how high. You have to be willing to do whatever it takes. Write your goals down and read them every day and night. Create positive affirmations about them as if they have already happened. Stop yourself when a negative thought enters your mind. Believe that it is possible and you are worthy of having all your dreams come true.

Craig Beckta resides in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada. www.craigsreality.com

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